[It's ironic that it's the same: the girl living up to expectations and refusing to accept that's all there is to it.]

Frankess can still be had without rudeness, I think.

You make it sound as though... [She trails off looking for the right words, even as the realization begins to set in: What has she ever done to step outside the lines prescribed for her?]

You make it sound as though loyalty, and duty, are bad things.